This is a question I often ask participants in my trainings. If we’re not careful, our lives can become transactional vs meaningful. We may not even realize it… like the proverbial “frog in the pot.” Sometimes we’re so busy “doing” that we don’t have time to just “be.”
What is the antidote? Press your pause button, take a step back and assess your life as if you were on the outside looking in. What advice would you give a friend in a similar situation? Chances are, the answers are in that advice.
The advice often has elements of setting boundaries, living more strategically and “on purpose,” being clear about what’s most important and living your life accordingly. Say “no” or “not right now” to things that are less aligned with your core values so that you can say “YES” enthusiastically to the things that are.
Life isn’t a dress rehearsal, it’s the main event! Let’s not wait until a curtain call to realize it! Quit saying, “I have to,” and say, “I choose to,” or “I get to!” You are more empowered than you give yourself credit for.
Who’s in the driver seat? You are! Whos’ the author/editor of your life story? You are. If it’s not working for you, rewrite it. I’m not saying it’s easy; I’m saying it’s doable.
Parting thought. Though there nice, Life (and workplace culture) isn’t about grand gestures, it’s about everyday living. The little things really are the big things. Slow down so you can create and experience more of them. Be the storm!
